Expressions!
From past few days i experienced the varied expressions of emotions. When things don't move the way you want them to move you feel sad, frustrated and irritated to the core. At the end you get angry and then the transference cycle starts. It was the same for me, i wished to do a lot of things and make everything out of the time i have, take up every damn opportunity coming in my way. But it was never meant to happen and i ended up with anger, frustration, sadness and irritation. "Shit !" was what was left.
When you love someone, you expect and finally demand some reactions and answers. Loving someone is not only feelings, its how you express yourself, make your presence felt, feel complete and most importantly its how much freedom you give. People say love changes them but does it actually? I mean its only us who alter ourselves for the other persons happiness creating a newer you, mostly maturing into a experienced human being. Its the expression of staying with someone dear to you that makes us do it all, give it all in.
When i see other people in love i see their way of expressing love is different form one another, its not the same tried or tested expression anymore. Now we want something unique, something novel, something that shows how much we love each other.
Expressions like humor, trust and confidence is what is there today. We need humor to smile now, to see life in positive terms, to keep aggression at bay! We need trust to depend on someone and if not then primarily on ourselves, to accept the deals of life, to create meaning out of something irrelevant and relevant! We require confidence to believe in ourselves, the things that we do, to motivate ourselves and to leave the hope of expecting something that we wholeheartedly desire.
With the rising competition and pressures in our lives we have forgotten some of these expressions, leaving negative vibes and hopelessness behind. As soon as the bad news arrives we board the flight to the world of complex emotions just to create more nuisance in our lives. The question is did our ancestors face the same problems and issues? Is there anyplace in this world where the life is still seen as simple and accepted as it is?
Expressions make up things and they only degrade or ignore things. They are the interior most part of us all that is closest to our soul!
When you love someone, you expect and finally demand some reactions and answers. Loving someone is not only feelings, its how you express yourself, make your presence felt, feel complete and most importantly its how much freedom you give. People say love changes them but does it actually? I mean its only us who alter ourselves for the other persons happiness creating a newer you, mostly maturing into a experienced human being. Its the expression of staying with someone dear to you that makes us do it all, give it all in.
When i see other people in love i see their way of expressing love is different form one another, its not the same tried or tested expression anymore. Now we want something unique, something novel, something that shows how much we love each other.
Expressions like humor, trust and confidence is what is there today. We need humor to smile now, to see life in positive terms, to keep aggression at bay! We need trust to depend on someone and if not then primarily on ourselves, to accept the deals of life, to create meaning out of something irrelevant and relevant! We require confidence to believe in ourselves, the things that we do, to motivate ourselves and to leave the hope of expecting something that we wholeheartedly desire.
With the rising competition and pressures in our lives we have forgotten some of these expressions, leaving negative vibes and hopelessness behind. As soon as the bad news arrives we board the flight to the world of complex emotions just to create more nuisance in our lives. The question is did our ancestors face the same problems and issues? Is there anyplace in this world where the life is still seen as simple and accepted as it is?
Expressions make up things and they only degrade or ignore things. They are the interior most part of us all that is closest to our soul!
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