Expectation: Part and Parcel of Everything

We breathe, drink and eat expectations... The thoughts be it concrete and abstract are expectations.

They are with us day in day out and mold our perceptions towards life!

There are times when you find yourself stuck in a cycle of doom, these expectations help us take charge of our life once again..

Each and Everyone of us have our own favorite collection of things, our own to-do lists and list of wishes. Those wishes are like our carry-bags or wallet that we all to stay afloat and complete the things that we all wanna do in our entire lifetime. There are some of us who think expecting makes us over-think, stresses us and even lose our own-self with time. But, No! it is what makes us who we really are and what all we want to achieve.

We all wonder "What If", "Had it not been like this" or "I wish".. Why think like this? And why let these If's govern us??? We can very well find courage to be the change and get things we want in life.. . Follow your heart.

I was  watching a movie "Letters to Juliet," although it was a romantic movie, i loved a quote in it which said, "Dear Claire, "What" and "If" are two words as non-threatening as words can be. But put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: 

 What if? 

 What if?

 What if? 

 I don't know how your story ended but if what you felt then was true love, then it's never too late. If it was true then, why wouldn't it be true now? You need only the courage to follow your heart. 

 I don't know what a love like Juliet's feels like - love to leave loved ones for, love to cross oceans for but I'd like to believe if I ever were to feel it, that I will have the courage to seize it. And, Claire, if you didn't, I hope one day that you will. 
All my love, Juliet"

 There are many things we leave coz we feel its essential, Alright! But there are things which we can pick up again and reorient ourselves to believe what we truly felt awhile ago.. Make yourself the change you want for yourself, bring those things hobbies and passion back in your life and most importantly don't stop expecting!

There is a song which has beautiful lyrics and is romantic from the same movie but has some meaning somewhere for us. Its "What If" by Colbie Caillat and here is the link http://www.metrolyrics.com/what-if-lyrics-colbie-caillat.html

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